Experts, and pretty much everybody else, have been saying since forever that the power of positive thinking can help you reach your goals. And it turns out everyone who was saying that was absolutely telling the truth. And it might be surprising to find out it’s even more important than you thought. Here’s a science study about the importance of positivity. The fact is, positive energy can help with your health, your relationships, your spirit, and inspire everyone else in your life. Just imagine if everyone was just a little bit more positive how much better the world would be. But most importantly, good thoughts and feelings will open doors for you and create opportunities that will lead you to more happiness and success.
In the article below you will discover three easy to use life-hacks that will empower you to create the future you most want.
How to Be Positive and Successfully Happy
Let’s get right into it. The best way to discover new happiness for yourself is simply to let the positivity inside you come out. Don’t be fooled by how simple this advice might seem. Negativity is very alluring, and it can be very subtle. When you cynically perceive the world around, you can feel more powerful. And when using force, you can shut people down, control circumstances, and steer the direction of events. But this power you feel is a lie. Sure, it gets results, but it comes at a far greater cost. Stress, frustration and anxiety will contaminate all parts of your life and make it difficult to manage your sensitivity and achieve peace and happiness. Positivity however, is about giving up the feeling of control and embracing faith in yourself and the people around you.
Everybody has an endless river inside of them flowing with positive good energy . But because the world can be cruel and we feel we have to defend ourselves, or do anything to succeed, we hold our good good energy in. It’s like we are a dam and we only let a small stream flow out. Living for happiness and success means opening up and sharing all the good inside ourselves. Give the best of yourself to everyone around you and you will see your life infinitely change.
Practical Application of Positive Energy
So does that mean the more positive you are the more successful you will be, counter intuitively, the answer is certainly not. It is always advised to be as positive as you can be, but within the limits of your situation and environment. Giving to much would quickly drain you and overwhelm everyone else nearby. It is not negative to be mindful of your environment and adapt to the situation you are in.
Here’s a hack to gauge how much positivity you should share. Read the situation and the people near by and get a sense of the mood, listen to the tone of their voices and how quick their actions and gestures are, or how tense the environment seems. The next step is to raise your energy levels a little bit above theirs, be a little bit more optimistic and excited then they are. Doing so will infect them with your good energy. When you have succeeded and everyone’s actions and gestures are as excited as your own, you can repeat this process again and continue to do so until everyone around you is have a great time
Take note, this technique is very powerful and will have a big impact on yourself and the people around you. So remember to respect the environment you are in and only raise the level of energy to something that is appropriate for the situation. In this way you will not just bring out your own positivity, but everyone in the group will enjoy themselves much more, and you will all have more happiness and success.
What About Positivity Negativity
In the age of Covid and trying to keep your family safe while also struggling to be healthy and productive, do you have to be negative to survive and succeed? How can you be positive when you have to be pessimistic about every person or place outside of your own home? It’s understood that sometimes you have to push away people who are interfering with the direction your life is going in. Or confront people in don’t understand your personal boundaries.
To help you navigate between negative and positive energies and still keep yourself safe, here is another hack you can use to stay on the path to the best future and the most success.
When someone you are uncomfortable with forces you to deal with them, and for whatever reason, maybe it’s for safety, or for comfort, and you want to push them away, please be assured it is okay to do so and still remain positive. You can do this by expressing to them you are busy or that you don’t have time right now, but also at the same time sharing with them that you hope they find what they need or that things are going well for them. To say this in more general terms; be firm about your boundaries and tell them where they may have overstepped, but also genuinely be concerned about their happiness and success. It’s okay to be negative when you have to be, but if you can also be genuine and still remain positive towards them then you cannot but help them find the best version of their future as well.
“In any situation or relationship where you demonstrate concern for other’s happiness and success but primarily focus on your goals, then you are being an example that will hopefully inspire them to seek out the same success that you are already achieving.”
your Next Step to a Better Future
The life-hacks offered above are quick and easy, and you can apply in any daily situation starting today. But they might be awkward the first few times you try them out. So remember to be positive if it doesn’t go so well, and also be objective. Ask yourself what was it that specifically went wrong and how you can change or adapt. It might take a few tries to get a feel for how these hacks work, but I’m sure that when you do your life will be heading in a whole new fantastic direction.
The take-away here is that happiness and positivity are a state of mind and opening yourself up and sharing all of that positivity, raising the energy and good vibes of all the people around you, and inspiring the world with your happiness and success while also protecting yourself from it’s dangers is what will lead you to the future you most dream of.
But please note that this is only one step (or maybe it’s more a leap) on the path that will take you to your dreams. And all of the folks here at The Self-Improvement Blog want to help reach your destination, and that’s why we suggest checking out all of the great articles here that will, if not take you all of the way; they will at least get you a whole lot closer to that bright bright future ahead of you. So make sure you check those articles out.
About the Author
When we are in pain it is common for us to want to retreat, but we might not understand doing so will cause long term mental struggle that can sabotage our future dreams. There is no quick fix to undo the wounds of our past, but with hard work and some knowhow you can make any dream come true. It is never to early or too late to change your life.
Hi, I’m Clinton, a writer, a life coach, an ambitious traveler, and an all-round genuine guy. It’s my passion to share with you both easy to follow directions and tangible results that will help you discover an exciting life filled with happiness and success.
